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EP 69: The Way I See It…with Dr. Ashley Smith

⏱️ 34:11 🎀 Barb Allen, Dr. Ashley Smith
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EP 69: The Way I See It…with Dr. Ashley Smith
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  • 0:00
    Introduction to Mental Health
    Barb Allen introduces the episode, highlighting May as Mental Health Awareness Month and the high rates of suicide in the construction industry.
  • 4:47
    Understanding Suicidal Thoughts
    Dr. Ashley Smith explains that the mind, designed to solve problems, can perceive suicide as a solution to overwhelming stressors or internal pain.
  • 13:08
    Two 'Flavors' of Suicide
    Dr. Smith discusses the two main types of suicidal ideation: a gradual descent often associated with depression, and sudden, unexpected occurrences likened to a heart attack.
  • 18:24
    Dispelling Suicide Myths
    The discussion covers common misconceptions about suicide, specifically that it is a selfish act or a sign of weakness, emphasizing understanding and compassion.
  • 24:26
    The Importance of Language
    Barb and Ashley emphasize the significance of changing language from 'committed suicide' to 'died by suicide' to remove blame and stigma.
  • 29:42
    Mental Health and Construction
    They explore why mental health is particularly prevalent in the male-dominated construction industry and how societal norms impact men's emotional expression.
  • 34:09
    Sharing Stories and Asking
    The speakers stress the power of sharing personal stories and the simple act of asking 'Are you okay?' to provide a lifeline and save lives.
  • 37:50
    Practical Advice and Resources
    Dr. Smith offers practical advice on responding to disclosures of suicidal thoughts and highlights resources like 988 and her book.
  • 43:23
    Dr. Smith's Book and Philosophy
    Barb promotes Dr. Smith's book, 'The Way I See It,' praising its accessible psychological insights and its goal of reducing suffering.

Speakers

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Barb Allen
Host
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Dr. Ashley Smith
psychologist and professional speaker

Key Takeaways

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Prioritize mental health conversations in the workplace; acknowledging May as Mental Health Awareness Month is a start, but ongoing dialogue is crucial to address the high suicide rates in construction.

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Understand that suicidal thoughts can arise from overwhelming problems; recognize that the mind, in its attempt to solve issues, can tragically consider suicide as a solution, requiring empathy rather than judgment.

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Challenge the myths surrounding suicide, particularly that it is selfish or weak; instead, approach it with compassion, similar to a physical illness, to reduce stigma and encourage seeking help.

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Adopt 'died by suicide' instead of 'committed suicide' in all communication to destigmatize the issue and avoid assigning blame, fostering a more supportive environment.

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Encourage open sharing of experiences among employees, especially leadership; authentic sharing can normalize mental health struggles and create a safe space for others to seek support.

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Implement clear protocols for responding to disclosures of suicidal thoughts, focusing on validation and support rather than guilt or anger, and connecting individuals to professional resources.

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Educate on the risk factors, including access to lethal means; ensure that safety measures for firearms and other potential means are in place for individuals struggling with mental health challenges.

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